I’ve been trying to touch grass recently. I started summer of last year. Before that i had like crippling agoraphobia but i finally got over it and started going out. my cousin invited me to the bar with her friends and i jumped at the chance to be social

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screaming and rolling on ground throwing up Anonymous 01/23/25 (Thu) 15:00:09 No.17

I’ve been trying to touch grass recently. I started summer of last year. Before that i had like crippling agoraphobia but i finally got over it and started going out. my cousin invited me to the bar with her friends and i jumped at the chance to be social offline. but ive come to realize how unhappy they all are. Half the group are like raging liberals and they project how much they hate themselves onto everyone else. This one girl seems to have taken charge of the group, and she just like makes everyone shun people as needed. She doesn’t even fuck dudes so i dunno why they are all simping for her. now they are all freaking out about politics and i try not to go out anymore. how tf do i meet irls that i can say slurs around, and have good humor. That’s like my only criteria, any advice?

Anonymous 01/23/25 (Thu) 16:12:51 No.18

yeah

Anonymous 01/23/25 (Thu) 21:20:53 No.20

I get maybe you don't want to be friends with raging liberals but do you really have to say nigger around people IRL?

Anonymous 01/23/25 (Thu) 23:10:58 No.22

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I don’t wanna say that one in particular I just don’t want my friends to be sensitive and freak tf out if i say something they don’t agree with. I have a few irls who are chill with that, and we have open communication where if someone says some fuck shit we talk about it like mature adults and yknow grow as frens. I just don’t fw how a lot of the bigger friend groups i find myself in have this group think prosecution mentality. Can’t even be casual anymore I have to walk on eggshells, even if it’s not “problematic” if someone doesn’t like something they shun you. Like ik im retarded and communication ain’t my strong suit but is it so much to ask that if i bother you, that you come to me and we discuss it instead of you ostracizing me?

Anonymous 01/24/25 (Fri) 22:21:07 No.23

idk i just adjust myself based on who im around, i just kinda met people and tested the waters on how they are and if theyre people i wanna be chill with then cool but if not then i keep my distance